Shining a Light: Celebrating Diwali

As the days lengthen here in New Zealand and we welcome spring, millions of people around the world are preparing to celebrate Diwali, the Festival of Lights.

Diwali (also called Divali or Deepavali) is one of the most important festivals in India and across South Asia. It celebrates the triumph of light over darkness, knowledge over ignorance, and hope over despair. The very name comes from Sanskrit Deepavali, meaning “row of lights.”

And that’s exactly what you’ll see during Diwali: rows of tiny clay lamps (diyas), candles, and lanterns glowing in homes and streets, creating a magical, golden atmosphere.

When is Diwali?

Unlike Christmas or New Year, Diwali doesn’t fall on the same date each year. That’s because it follows a lunar calendar. The main celebration happens on the night of the new moon, when the sky is darkest and the light shines brightest.

This year, Diwali takes place on October 20–21, 2025.

The Five Days of Diwali

Each day of Diwali has its own significance:

Day 1: Dhanteras
The festival begins with an auspicious day dedicated to wealth and prosperity. Homes are decorated with rangoli (intricate floor art), flowers, and small clay lamps to invite the goddess Lakshmi (goddess of wealth) inside.

Day 2: Kali Chaudas
This day is about cleansing and removing negativity. People worship Goddess Kali, who represents the destruction of evil and illness.

Day 3: Diwali (Main Day)
The heart of the celebration. Diyas are lit everywhere, symbolizing the inner light that protects us from spiritual darkness. It is also Goddess Lakshmi’s birthday and a day of family prayers, feasting, and fireworks.

Day 4: Govardhan Puja
A day dedicated to Lord Krishna and appreciation for Mother Nature. Families give thanks with special offerings.

Day 5: Bhai Dooj
The festival closes by celebrating the bond between siblings, especially between brothers and sisters, with food, gifts, and blessings.

The Story of Diwali

There are many regional stories associated with Diwali, but perhaps the most famous comes from the Ramayana, one of India’s great epics.

According to legend, Prince Rama returned home after defeating the demon king Ravana, who had kidnapped his wife Sita. To celebrate his victory and safe return, the people of his kingdom lit rows of clay lamps to guide his way and welcome him home.

This story reflects the essence of Diwali: the victory of good over evil, light over darkness.

Diwali in New Zealand

Here in New Zealand, Diwali is celebrated in many cities with food stalls, dance performances, music, and fireworks. It’s a wonderful opportunity to experience the colours, flavours, and traditions of this vibrant festival.

What Diwali Reminds Us

For me, Diwali is a beautiful reminder that no matter how dark things feel, there is always light waiting to shine through.

And for us women over 50, it could be a little like skincare and self-care too. We don’t hide our glow. We nurture it, protect it, and share it — because the world needs more of our light.

So this Diwali, may you find ways to celebrate your own inner radiance. Light a candle, wear something that makes you sparkle, or take a moment to care for your skin.

Because glowing — inside and out — never goes out of style. 🌟